Our Contract

Rules & Expectations: Master and Little Wolf agree to the below rules and expectations to be enforced within our relationship. Alpha Wolf and Little Wolf agree that the below rules are subject to change at any time with all parties’ full knowledge beforehand. 
  • Disrespect will not be tolerated this includes but is not limited to; talking over one another, back-talking, bad attitude, or other forms of disrespect. Respect goes BOTH ways. We expect consistent treatment without double standards. If either feels there is a double standard, then they have the freedom to bring this up respectfully.
  • Lying or any other form of dishonest communication or behavior is not permitted. We will not withhold any information (personal, professional, financial, etc.) from each other.
  • Disobedience is not acceptable. Little Wolf will comply with anything that Master orders or requests of her. When Little Wolf is told to do something, it is expected to be done, if discussion is needed then she is expected to do so respectfully. Master will attempt to phrase orders and commands by gaining Little Wolf’s attention, stating the desired task and if she desires saying “please” at the end. (Ex.: Little Wolf, Get me some water, Please.)
  • Absolutely no illegal or dangerous behaviors including, but not necessarily limited to, dangerous driving (text messaging while driving, excessive speeding, failure to stop at stop signs or lights, etc.) and self-harming activities (cutting or overdosing on medications).
  • Master will respect the safewords “Butterfly” and “Moon.” Little Wolf will not abuse the privilege of using her safewords in discipline settings, reserving them for times when they are truly necessary.
  • Master and Little Wolf are expected to take care of their physical, mental and emotional health.
  • Little Wolf is not allowed to use curse words.
  • Little Wolf is expected to shower or bathe, shave, brush her hair and teeth every day.
  • Little Wolf is expected to eat three meals a day. She will send Master pictures of her meals before and after she has eaten. Additionally, she is allowed to drink water, juice milk or tea freely but must ask for soda.
  • Little Wolf is expected to spend 20 minutes outside twice daily weather providing. If weather is bad Little Wolf will sit near an open window got visible sunlight. 
  • Little Wolf's Addictions :
    Little Wolf is under no circumstances to drink alcohol and or participate in doing illegal drugs.
    Little Wolf is addicted to alcohol and drugs and could end up in a severe backward spiral if she does so.
    If Little Wolf participates in drinking alcohol or doing any illegal substances this is subject for immediate discipline from Alpha Wolf of his choosing.
    Discipline for these actions will be severe and carried out immediately.
    Little Wolf will assume the Open Tower position and await discipline by Alpha Wolf.
    Punishment will be severe in all aspects.
    Little Wolf will not refuse any punishment set by Alpha Wolf.
Discipline System: The consequences that Master and Little Wolf have agreed upon are as follows: 
  • Spanking: Spankings will be carried out with any implement and in any position Master decides. Alpha Wolf agrees that the severity of the spanking will always fit the offense committed. Little Wolf understands that the length and severity, of the spanking will remain solely up to Alpha Wolf. 
  • Reflection time: Alpha Wolf agrees that the reason and specific instructions will be given for reflection time and it will fit the severity of the offense. Alpha Wolf agrees to never lock Little Wolf in the bedroom. Little Wolf understands that the specifics and length, of bedroom time are solely up to Alpha Wolf and failure to follow instructions given could result in an additional consequence of Alpha Wolf’s choosing. This time can include writing assignments such as essays, apology letters, writing lines or an explanation of behavior and how Little Wolf plans to fix it in the future. 
  • Grounding/removal of privileges: Alpha Wolf agrees to only remove Little Wolf’s privileges if a misbehavior has occurred that Alpha Wolf feel warrants this consequence. Alpha Wolf agrees to impose the length of the grounding fairly based on the severity of the offence, and vows never to ground Little Wolf from anything that would prohibit Little Wolf from completing necessary responsibilities to work, school or Our children. Little Wolf understands that the terms and length of the grounding is solely up to Alpha Wolf and failure to comply with the instructions of Alpha Wolf could result in additional consequences. This can include but is not limited to: computer time, phone time, certain items of clothing and orgasm torture or full denial. 
Reward System: Alpha Wolf and Little Wolf agree that rewards are just as important as discipline if not more so. Rewards are things Little Wolf would not normally have but are used as special recognition for positive behavior. The following are some examples of rewards that may be awarded: 
  • Massages/Back rubs from Alpha Wolf or a professional at a spa
  • Bubble Baths
  • Pedicures/Manicure
  • Balloons/Flowers
  • Stuffed Animals/Little’s Toys/Coloring Materials  New Blankies Small Jewelry
  • Dinner & A Movie
Aftercare: Aftercare is a necessary element in this relationship and should never be taken lightly. No matter the reason for aftercare being needed, be it from discipline or play, it will ALWAYS be provided. Little Wolf will be given aftercare for as long as necessary. Little Wolf is not allowed to reject aftercare and Alpha Wolf is not allowed to deny it for any reason. Obvious needs that need immediate attention, i.e. going to the restroom or cleaning up any messes, not including implements, toys, restraints, will be allowed but should not take more than 10 minutes. Aftercare is needed to reestablish and/or strengthen the bond between Alpha Wolf and Little Wolf.

Maintenance: Alpha Wolf will perform Maintenance wit­h Little Wolf at least twice a week,­ typically Wednesday and Friday. Mainten­ance is performed with a wooden spoon of Alpha Wolf's choice and can include upper thighs and inner thighs. All electronic­ devices are to be put away at 7:45 am ex­cept for video. ­Little Wolf will present her cuffs to Al­pha Wolf in the Open Tower­ position wearing an outfit of Alpha Wolf's choosing. Once­ cuffs are fastened Little Wolf will, up­on command, assume the Maintenance­ position and Alpha Wolf will provide a ­spanking that is to last at least 30 min­utes including a warm up and a spanking ­at a low to moderate pain level where ev­er he so desires. Alpha Wolf will provide no less than 15 minutes of aftercare of his choosing. Sexual gratification afterwards will depend on Little Wolf’s behavior since the last maintenance session. If she has been granted such satisfaction it will take place after aftercare. If she is not granted such satisfaction Alpha Wolf may choose to play and deny Little Wolf permission to orgasm. Alpha Wolf may choose not to play at all in either situation based on his own opinion. 

Other Submissive Friends: Little Wolf is allowed to have other submissive friends. She is allowed to communicate with them however she desires, so long as it does not interfere with her responsibilities to the house or Alpha Wolf. If Little Wolf gets in trouble due to her behavior with other subs she is required to tell the Owners of the sub involved about this trouble in detail. If another submissive friend gets in trouble and Little Wolf is even partially responsible for this she will receive the same punishment, within our guidelines, as the sub who she assisted in getting in trouble. If during that punishment, Little Wolf manages to get that sub in more trouble she will receive twice what the sub receives.

Little Wolf’s Collar: A collar is a symbol of ownership given to a submissive or slave by the Dominant or Owner. Subs and slaves are expected to act appropriately, both before and once their collar is earned. Little Wolf currently has her training collar. This means that both Little Wolf and Alpha Wolf are in the training stages of this lifestyle with one another and will come to a decision whether to advance to a permanent collar or stay with a training collar when the time comes. Once Little Wolf has earned her permanent collar, she will remain collared until such time that it is decided that she no longer deserves or wants the privileges and responsibilities that come with it. Removal of Little Wolf’s permanent collar is a symbol that the D/s relationship has come to an end in its entirety. Alpha Wolf agrees to not de-collar Little Wolf without first exhausting all other options named within this contract. 

Inspection: Little Wolf will take pictures of herself in any area that she is required to shave on Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Sunday and will send them to Alpha Wolf when they are completed. 

Sexual Conduct: Little Wolf is not permitted to engage in self-play without prior permission from Alpha Wolf. She may request permission but it is Alpha Wolf’s decision whether to grant permission or not.

Mental Health: Alpha Wolf and Little Wolf will continue with personal counseling to deal with past trauma and present personal issues. Alpha Wolf will take all prescribed medications as directed by his doctor. Little Wolf will take all prescribed medications as directed by her doctor. If Alpha Wolf or Little Wolf are having a bad day, they will use their coping skills or call someone that can help. If Alpha Wolf or Little Wolf need some space to think they will tell the other something along the lines of “I need 30 minutes to calm down.” In the event the initial amount of time is not enough they will inform the other they need more time. The amount of time separated should not exceed one hour unless both Alpha Wolf and Little Wolf agree that more time is needed.

Little Wolf’s Blog: Little Wolf is to maintain her blog where she is to record all play time and punishments that will include pictures of her in any way Alpha Wolf chooses to take pictures during sessions. She may also post about random things and use pictures of herself, our play items, and other family events. All posts containing pictures must be approved before being published.

Household Responsibilities: Household chores are the responsibility of everyone in the house and they are divided as equally as possible. Little Wolf’s will complete her chores before doing any other extra circular activities. Chores are to be completed by bedtime daily. Little Wolf’s Chores are: 
  • Make Bed
  • Clean Room 
  • Vacuum
  • Dust
  • Sweep
  • Mop
  • Clean Up After Pets
  • Feed & Water Pets 
  • Wash Dishes
Little Wolf's Routine :
      6 Am : Make bed
      7:0 am: Video Time
      8 am: Breakfast
      9 am: Chores
      10 am: Bath/Shower
      11 am: Lunch
      12-1 pm:Rest and Relaxation
      1-2 pm: Group Related Chat/Discussion
      2:30 pm: Kid's
      3:30 pm: Video Time
      5:30 pm: Dinner
      6:30 pm: Group Discussions
      7:30 pm: Wind Down Time
      8:30 pm: Bedtime and Cuffs

Little Wolf’s Little Side: Little Wolf has Little tendencies that need to be expressed. Alpha Wolf understands that this is not a “parenting mission” but a safe way for Little Wolf to be more fully who she is. Alpha Wolf will provide acceptance, consistency and discipline as needed even when Little Wolf is in Little Space. Alpha Wolf will always be loving and nurturing towards Little Wolf when she is in Little Space and provide safety for Little Wolf throughout her Little Time. 

What does Alpha Wolf expect from his little?
  • Always be respectful 
  • Always be completely honest and truthful
  • Always be obedient of the rules and guidelines that are in place
  • Always be accepting of consequences that are given
  • Playful is okay but bratty is not
What does Little Wolf expect from Alpha Wolf?
  • Time to be a little, during this time adulting will be kept to a minimum
  • Nurturing and support to allow her to comfortably express her little side
  • Rules and guidelines to keep her safe and protected
  • Consistency and discipline to avoid her getting confused
  • Never ignore her or deny her affection
Don’ts
  • Don’t raise your voice or yell at your little
  • Don’t expect your little to think or act like an adult when they are in little space
  • Don’t swear or curse at your little
  • Don’t take your little for granted 
  • Don’t ignore your little 
  • Don’t take away your littles binky or stuffies
Dos
  • Do get excited when your little shares things with you
  • Do give your little comfort and attention 
  • Do be consistent and concise
  • Do play with your little and encourage their little side
Submissive Positions: Little Wolf will endeavor to learn all these positions and be able to perform them when she is commanded to do so by Alpha Wolf. 
  • Nadu - Little Wolf kneels before Alpha Wolf, with her hands in her lap palms up. 
  • Open Nadu - Little Wolf kneels before Alpha Wolf, her head held high, eyes downcast, knees spread wide open, shoulders back keeping her back arched slightly, breasts thrust outward. Here hands are to be either on her thighs or behind her back at Alpha Wolf direction. 
  • Inspection - Little Wolf will lay on her back, hands at sides, palms facing upward, legs spread wide as she waits for Alpha Wolf’s inspection.
  • Punishment - Little Wolf will lay on her stomach, face down and turned to the side, with hands by her head or over the side of the table. 
  • Snuggle - Little Wolf will fit herself against Alpha Wolf’s side, snuggling into the crook of her arm or next to her, if laying down. 
  • Maintenance - Little Wolf will place her nest by the couch of Alpha Wolf’s choice. She will then assume the Open Tower position facing Alpha Wolf for the placement of her wrist cuffs and when directed she will line her body up along the couch bending forward on her elbows and knees. She will then spread her knees exposing her ass and pussy for her maintenance spanking.
  • Sexual Use/Play - Little Wolf will assume the Open Tower position on her nest facing away from Alpha Wolf and then lower her head to the floor, while raising her ass upward, exposing her bottom and pussy for any use Alpha Wolf may desire 
  • Act Right Chair 1 - Little Wolf will place the chair by the couch of Alpha Wolf’s choice, put a pillow over the back side of the chair, she will then kneel up with her legs spread as far as possible and lean over the back side of the chair placing her hands on the couch 
  • Act Right Chair 2 - Little Wolf will place the chair by the couch of Alpha Wolf’s choice, slide her legs through it until her behind is near the edge of the chair. Alpha Wolf will bind her thighs and ankles together and then tie them to the back of the chair. Alpha Wolf will then bind Little Wolf’s cuffs to the legs of the chair so that she is unable to refuse her punishment. 
  • Wall - Little Wolf will stand approximately 12 inches from the wall, spread her legs shoulder width apart and place her hands and head against the wall, so that she is presenting her behind for Alpha Wolf. This position is used only for punishments that are meant to be quick.
  • Pussy Exposure - Little Wolf will lay on her back, pull her legs up to her chest, either spread shoulder width apart or together, by the knees and keep her feet in the air so they are out of the way. 
  • Inner Thigh Exposure - Little Wolf will lay on her back, spread her legs as far apart as she can and then pull her feet up together with the soles touching to best expose her inner thighs to Alpha Wolf. 
Mild Protocol: Typical reasons for this protocol are mindset issues and minor discipline issues. This protocol can also be used when Little Wolf requests and Alpha Wolf agrees or if Alpha Wolf decides its needed.

Little Wolf will: 
  • Have her hair down and dress as Alpha Wolf desires once Our children are asleep
  • Sit at Alpha Wolf’s feet on her nest 
  • Tend to Our children unless otherwise directed 
  • Remove self from stress and collect herself as needed
  • Stay to Alpha Wolf’s Right in public areas
  • Maintain respectful tone and behavior
  • Wear wrist cuffs as Alpha Wolf desires
Little Wolf will not: 
  • Question Alpha Wolf’s commands
  • Cum without begging for permission from Alpha Wolf 
Alpha Wolf will: 
  • Announce assumption of Protocol and explain why it’s needed 
  • Place wrist cuffs on Little Wolf
  • Give clear directions and commands
  • Pay attention to Little Wolf
  • Tend to Our children if he is stressing Little Wolf out
  • Keep track of all discipline needed and handle it after Our children have gone to bed
Alpha Wolf will not: 
  • Leave Little Wolf alone for extended periods of time (no more than one hour) 
  • Discipline while Our children are awake
  • Degrade or humiliate Little Wolf in any way especially in public 
  • Cause Little Wolf to fail by pushing too far in any endeavors
When going to bed Little Wolf will: 
  • Kneel/Sit at Alpha Wolf’s feet in the Tower position
  • Set out toys upon request
  • Place towel on bed or assemble table upon request 
When going to bed Alpha Wolf will: 
  • Explain any discipline to be handed out and why it is needed 
  • Remove Little Wolf’s clothing
  • Ensure Little Wolf’s mental stability before proceeding
  • Provide all aftercare for as long as needed to reestablish the intimate bond

Moderate Protocol: Typical reasons for this protocol are maintenance or moderate discipline. This protocol can also be used when Little Wolf requests and Alpha Wolf agrees or if Alpha Wolf decides its needed.

Little Wolf will: 
  • Have her hair down and dress as Alpha Wolf desires once Our children are asleep 
  • Sit at Alpha Wolf’s feet on her nest
  • Tend to Our children unless otherwise directed 
  • Remove self from stress with permission and collect herself
  • Stay to Alpha Wolf’s Right in public areas
  • Maintain respectful tone and behavior
  • Wear wrist cuffs as Alpha Wolf desires
Little Wolf will not: 
  • Play with her phone/computer/tablet or socialize unless given direct permission
  • Wear underwear once she has changed for the night
  • Question Alpha Wolf’s commands
  • Cum without begging for permission from Alpha Wolf 
Alpha Wolf will: 
  • Announce assumption of Protocol and explain why it’s needed
  • Give clear directions and commands
  • Pay attention to Little Wolf
  • Tend to Our children if he is stressing Little Wolf out
  • Keep track of all discipline needed throughout day and handle it after Our children have gone to bed
  • Immediately discipline Little Wolf if it will not call the attention of Our children 
Alpha Wolf will not: 
  • Leave Little Wolf alone
  • Severely discipline while Our children are awake
  • Degrade or humiliate Little Wolf in any way especially in public 
  • Cause Little Wolf to fail by pushing too far in sexual endeavors
When going to bed Little Wolf will: 
  • Kneel/Sit at Alpha Wolf’s feet in the Tower position
  • Set out toys upon request
  • Place towel on bed or assemble table upon request 
When going to bed Alpha Wolf will: 
  • Explain any discipline to be handed out and why it is needed 
  • Remove Little Wolf’s clothing
  • Ensure Little Wolf’s mental stability before proceeding
  • Provide all aftercare for as long as needed to reestablish the intimate bond
Formal Protocol: Typical reasons for this protocol are when Little Wolf has abandoned her responsibilities or is due for a serious discipline. This protocol will also be used at all formal or informal lifestyle events unless Little Wolf is told otherwise. 

Little Wolf will: 
  • Have her hair down and dress as Alpha Wolf desires once Our children are asleep.
  • Sit at Alpha Wolf’s feet on her nest
  • Tend to Our children unless otherwise directed 
  • Remove self from stress with permission and collect herself
  • Stay to Alpha Wolf’s Right in public areas
  • Request permission to speak unless she is spoken to 
  • Maintain respectful tone and behavior
  • Wear wrist cuffs as Alpha Wolf desires
Little Wolf will not: 
  • Play with her phone/computer/tablet or socialize unless given direct permission
  • Wear underwear once she has changed for the night
  • Question Alpha Wolf’s commands
  • Cum without direct permission from Alpha Wolf begging is allowed but may not necessarily help
Alpha Wolf will: 
  • Announce assumption of Protocol and explain why it is needed
  • Give clear directions and commands
  • Pay attention to Little Wolf
  • Tend to Our children if he is stressing Little Wolf out
  • Keep track of all discipline needed throughout day and handle it after Our children have gone to bed
  • Immediately discipline Little Wolf if it will not call the attention of Our children 
Alpha Wolf will not: 
  • Leave Little Wolf alone
  • Severely discipline while Our children is awake
  • Degrade or humiliate Little Wolf in any way especially in public 
  • Cause Little Wolf to fail by pushing too far in sexual endeavors
When going to bed Little Wolf will: 
  • Kneel/Sit at Alpha Wolf’s feet in the Tower position
  • Set out toys upon request
  • Place towel on bed or assemble table upon request 
When going to bed Alpha Wolf will: 
  • Explain the discipline to be handed out and why it is needed
  • Remove Little Wolf’s clothing 
  • Ensure Little Wolf’s mental stability before proceeding
  • Provide all aftercare for as long as needed to reestablish the intimate bond
Training Goal:
The purpose of this goal is to work towards a tighter more satisfying relationsh­ip for both Alpha Wolf and Little Wolf. ­The hope for these goals is that it will­ help both Alpha Wolf and Little Wolf be­come the Daddy and little they both de­sire to be.

Alpha Wolf Will:­
  • Spend 30 minutes on Monday mornings ­ training Little Wolf orgasm control in a way that pleases him. This ­requires video observation and i­nstructions on what to do and how it is ­to be done. Alpha Wolf is aware tha­t Little Wolf is shy about this and will­ be patient with her but not allow ­her to escape this training. If Little W­olf refuses any instructions Alpha ­Wolf will choose an implement of her cho­ice, have Little Wolf assume­ the Inner Thigh Exposure­ position and Alpha Wolf will have Little Wolf swat ­herself as many times as he so chooses. 
  • Consistently correct Little Wolf on­ her Attitude Issues­. He will draw immediate attention­ to the issue for Little Wolf’s knowledg­e, immediately discipline if possib­le or write it down for later discussion­, make note of any kickback on issu­e, and correct when possible remembering­ that there are non-physical discip­lines as well as physical ones. Alpha Wo­lf will use any discipline he sees­ fit to correct the action. Alpha Wolf m­ay combine more than one discipline­ if it is a continuing issue or severe enough to warrant this action.

Little Wolf Will:­
  • Spend 30 minutes on Monday mornings training under Alpha Wolf’s direction on orgasm control in a way that p­leases Alpha Wolf. Little Wolf will not ­ refuse to control orgasm control training in any way ­that Alpha Wolf instructs. If she does ­ she will assume ­Inner Thigh Exposure­ position and Alpha Wolf will instruct her to swat herself a­s many times as he so chooses. 
  • Work to perfect her ­Attitude­ so that it matches Alpha Wolf’s desires­. Alpha Wolf will bring any issue w­ith Little Wolf’s attitude to her attent­ion and discipline immediately if p­ossible, if not and Little Wolf gives ki­ckback Alpha Wolf will make a note ­of it and deal with it later that evenin­g during a discipline session. Litt­le Wolf will accept all discipline hande­d out with grace and utter acceptan­ce. Anything less may result in further ­ discipline.

Signatures: By signing this I am committing to the goals above and will carry them out to the best of my ability. I am doing this of my own free will and believe that this is the best course of action to take our relationship to the next level. This goal shall commence on the date it is signed. 

Alpha Wolf:_____________________________________ Date: ___________

Little Wolf:_____________________________________ Date: ___________

Contract Re-Evaluation:­ This contract will remain in effect for­ a period of 3 months­ at which time re-evaluation will occur ­to decide if these terms are still usefu­l and helpful in the relationship. If ei­ther party is not satisfied with anythin­g listed in this contract they are free ­to bring it up at the re-evaluation meet­ing as well as at any time before the ex­piration of the above-mentioned time fra­me.

Signatures:­ ­Alpha Wolf and Little Wolf agree with th­e rules, and consequences, named above a­s part of our dynamic. Furthermore, all ­parties fully acknowledge that they have­ consented to this agreement, and lifest­yle, and can withdrawal that consent at ­any time either formally or informally.

I, Alpha Wolf, understand that I must consistently hold Little Wolf accountable ­if the above rules are broken. I agree t­o always maintain a calm, controlled environment and demeanor prior to imposing ­any of the above consequences, and I agree to never make Little Wolf feel degraded. I further agree to only impose the above consequences fairly and responsibly. If correction is needed ­in a public place it will be done privately. Alpha Wolf agrees to refrain from ­making any changes and/or additions to these rules or consequences without the prior knowledge of Little Wolf.


Alpha Wolf: _____________________________________ Date: ___________

I, Little Wolf understand that failure to follow the above rules may result in the consequence of Alpha Wolf’s choosing.­ I also understand that these rules have been set forth by Alpha Wolf because they are in the best interest of myself, and our relationship. I, Little Wolf, agree that I am subject to the above consequences should any of the above rules be ­broken. I agree to act responsible and appropriately throughout the course of any consequence set forth by Alpha Wolf. I­ understand that I am able to respectfully express my opinion to Alpha Wolf at any time, but that the final say in the consequence will always remain at the discretion of Alpha Wolf.





Little Wolf: _____________________________________ Date: ___________





This contract comes up for Re-evaluation on: ___________






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